Staying In My Lane

I cannot relate to anyone who is overweight. I have no words of encouragement. I pray I am not asked advice. I would say, you are lazy , you do not want it bad enough, get in the gym, and put the donut down. I do not have a story to share, on how I went from obese to a size 8, because by the grace of God I have never been obese. Gaining weight makes me depress and makes my cloth choices difficult. So, I work towards getting the weight off, when I gain it. I do not need a speech, I just do it. I can only relate to someone who has been on the journey for years. So, because I know, I really do not have the ability and gift to encourage weight lost. I stay in my lane and talk about things I know about. I used that analogy, to say this. 

 I talk about infidelity, because I was an adulterer. I talk about lack of self control, because I struggle with a temperament problem. I talk about men and sex as temporary fillers, because that is what I did. I can talk about being homeless, because I was. I can talk about being abused sexually and physically because I was.  

So let the subliminal messages start on social media, accusing me of judging and being self righteous. I am going to continue to talk about what God put on my heart to talk about. I know someone, at some point, will be blessed with my story. So you can start getting mad now, because I am not stopping.  

So in the future blogs I will continue to talk about married women closing their legs to men that is not her husband. Single women who jump from relationship to relationship because happiness is defined to them as being in a relationship. And single women who keep renting their selves out and not knowing their value. Thinking a pretty face and their rocking the mic skills can keep a man . 

I am not a Minster, Pastor or Bishop. I did not major in Theology, I majored in Business Management. I recently , just started to read the Bible. I do not have the scriptures memorized, but I know where to go find them. 

I do not know how to preach , all I can do, is share my story and stay in my lane. Get mad all you want, staying in the will God, is more important to me, then your bruise feelings. 

I cannot promise perfection, but I can promise that I will be authentic and transparent. I am a imperfect Christian who rocks, because she knows she's imperfect and does not pretend otherwise. The imperfection, does not make me rock, the honesty does.  

Imperfect Christians Rock,

Chantale Chan

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